If you plan things out too much they never live up to your expectations... Especially in swinging! We practice spontaneity as it relates to swinging and enjoy the lifestyle very much. We are a happy couple of 15 years and we are secure in our marriage and our relationship. We enjoy life and like to spice it up every now and then with a bit of ''naughty'' fun :). We like meeting new people. It can be anything from drinks & soft play with newbies to full out fun in the middle of parking lot at night :). You only live once!